OK, since I "promised"...
Trying to keep "it" alive even though I've gotta get up again in less than 5h..
@ratlady: Uhm, I don´t necessarily want to appear American, but I don´t want to appear German either, just because I don´t like the extreme German accent. When you are used to listening to Americans talking and then you hear a German speaking English it´s kinda funny.
I know what you mean - but then again, I don't think you for yourself really "hear" your own accent ...
Don't you think that all those Germans with that "horrible" accent are in fact trying hard to "eliminate" that - and maybe even think they "succeeded"? I'm really not so sure... for example, I know I have certain "problems" with English but yet, I can't really "hear" my accent as that... however, when listening to my brother, who's also fluent in English, I can hear it immediately... so, I THINK my English sounds different than his (especially regarding "th") but in the end, who knows...
A few years ago, I met a German who'd been living in the US for more than a quarter century, and his German was all but rudimentary... yet, he STILL had that "awful" accent when speaking English...
And, as Josie said - if you try to "imitate" anything, it may just go down the wrong way...
It´s just that I have put so much effort into improving my skills that I´d like to start getting compliments for it. And a native not noticing you´re foreign would be the best of all compliments , wouldn´t it?
Well, as I said before - you WILL get complimented on your language skills, for sure... provided you do go over there and give it a try
And, a "native" will always notice you're from "somewhere else" - nothing wrong or bad about that, so just don't worry too much.
The one thing I think about "English skills" - once you stop "translating" and really start "speaking", that's when you "got it"... and that's also when you're gonna run into the "reverse" problem, just as Crimson Tide said:
but also I have now, after nearly three years, the problem, not to know immediately the German word for something! I really forgot vocabularies, or I need some time to remember!
I can also testify to that! Luckily, nowadays I have the "luxury" of visiting German internet discussion boards fairly regularly, which helps a lot... but I remember several years ago, sometimes I'd call home and just felt like an idiot, stuttering and scrambling for words...
@Josie:
My "German accent" is most notable nowadays in my writing - I put commas everywhere
*lol* - I may be wrong but my impression is, whereever there would be a comma in German there's none in English, and vice versa...